Does the upper class look down upon everyone else?

Wow! I saw the pic and that's some spread. But, don't let the house or his family intimidate you. We all put our pants on one leg at a time. Remember this is the family of your amazing man. He is the guy he is today because of his family and how they raised him. As far as the differences embrace them, learn from them. You may find that they will be warm, welcoming and down to earth people.